Desire: Information for men with a cancer history

Examples of Intimacy Dates: Increasing Closeness

  • Nonsexual massage
  • Showering together
  • Slow touching with clothing on
  • Prolonged hugs, kissing and meaningful conversations
  • If you feel connection and comfortable, partners can move to establishing erotic intimacy—increased touch and exploration
  • Key is gradual development of closeness, trust and comfort