Finding Love Later in Life

Summary—What did you learn?

  • Self-reflection prior to dating is important. Take some time to think about the changes to your body and personality, and how they might affect your dating goals and needs. 
  • Consider journaling or speaking with a counselor about what you are looking for in a partner.
  • Joining clubs in your community, joining a gym, participating in a support group are some ways cancer survivors might expand their social networks and adopt practices to stay healthy/reduce risk of cancer recurrence.
  • There are rules and expectations around appropriate self-disclosure during the initiating stage of relationships. 
  • Some research indicates that cancer survivors should wait until the second or third date to share their cancer experience.  
  • The Onion theory is a model that explains how self-disclosure changes as relationships progress and become more intimate.